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Writer's pictureHeidi Blackie

Overcome Guilt With Self-Care

In a world that often expects women to be perpetual caregivers, taking time for yourself can feel selfish. But what if I told you that prioritizing self-care isn't just okay – it's essential? Let's dive into why women deserve to put themselves first and how to overcome the guilt that often comes with it.



Self-care isn't about indulgence; it's about maintaining your mental, emotional, and physical health—in whatever form feels right to you. When you take care of yourself, you are healthier, happier, and better able to respond to life's challenges. You are also better equipped to care for others.


It also has a ripple effect: when you prioritize your well-being, you set an example for others, especially younger generations. You show them that it's okay – and necessary – to take care of themselves.


Setting Boundaries

One of the most powerful tools in your self-care arsenal is setting boundaries. Boundaries aren’t about shutting people out; they’re about protecting your energy and your time. By saying "no" to requests that drain you, you open the door to say "yes" to activities that fill you up. Think about the impact it would have if you prioritized your mental, emotional, and physical well-being—how much better would you feel?


Self-care means giving yourself permission to prioritize your needs, desires, and rest. Whether it’s scheduling time for a hobby, taking a quiet moment alone, or treating yourself to something special—saying yes to yourself is an act of self-love. It’s not about neglecting others; it’s about showing up as your best self.


Practical Tips to Start Today:

  • Reflect on where you’re feeling drained and what you can say “no” to.

  • Start small: carve out 10-15 minutes daily for yourself.

  • Practice saying “no” without guilt. Trust me, it gets easier over time.

  • Remind yourself that your well-being matters as much as anyone else’s.


By overcoming guilt and embracing your self-care, you're not just improving your own life – you're contributing to a shift toward a culture that values well-being and balance.

So go ahead, draw that bath, read that book, or take that nap, or just do nothing. Your future self will thank you!


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